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19/02/2010 at 10:54
We're putting together a feature on sex during pregnancy and are looking for three mums to talk about it in the three trimesters.
What were your thoughts on sex during the first, second and third trimester? Were you worried about hurting the baby in the first 12 weeks? Did the second trimester make you frisky? Or were you uncomforable because of your big during the third? How did you cope, what positions did you try?
Tell us your thoughts on here or email me at email@example.com and include your name, age, where you are from and the how many weeks pregnant you are, ideally with a pic of you and your bump.
20/02/2010 at 18:00
i'm not pregnant but my labido shot through the roof when i was pregnant much to the delight of my husband
in the first trimester you couldnt get near me because my boobs were so sore and i was a rather grumpy person to be around but as soon as i hit the 2nd trimester and continued into my 3rd i couldnt get enough of it, me and my husband used to joke that it was my craving lol
i could only get comfortable in 2 positions and that was with me on top and on all fours
my husband loved my curves and my growing bump and i did to and it was always so intimate which was nice
i'm more than happy to send in a pic of me when i was pregnant but no worries if you use other mummies just thought i'd share my take on sex during prgnancy
zoe (age 26) from yeovil (mummy to charlie who's now 2yrs)
11/03/2010 at 09:54
Hiya not surs if youir still wanting info but i will right a post anyways.
Im 33 weeks pregnant with my second child, and found that im my first trimester i was very much up for sex with my partner and didnt find any problems.
But once i was in my second trimester everything changed i didnt want him to touch me in anyway my boobs were so saw and my bump was getting bigger very quick! i also found that on the few times that we did have sex i did find if very painful but i think that was down to my feeling so worryed about the way i looked and being so tired all the time and even tho my partner said he thought i looked beautiful with my bump i just didnt feel it.
Now im in my third trimester and i feel huge but my boobs are not as saw as they were and i do feel better about the way i look so sex is now back on lol and my partner is very much happy agen. My partner gives me a back massage most of the time befor sex just to relax me and we found both of us laying on are sides with him behind me the best posion. The only thing i find uncomterbul now is when the baby starts kicking my like mad when we start to have sex witch my partner likes to have a giggle at as every now and then i will shout out (oh foot in the ribs!!) .
Hayleigh, age 18, from camberley surrey, 33weeks pregnant and mum to kyra 14 months. xx
14/03/2010 at 09:02
28 weeks pregnant and not had sex since 22 weeks pregnant. Consultants orders. before that was 16 weeks! (poor husband)
Ive had NO desire for sex and when I have had a desire, if I COULD have had sex...i wouldnt have because of his work hours and her sleep/wake patterns. When he is home, she is awake! I would rather feel her kicks then get upto "adult" things knowing she is awake and probably wondering what the heck is going on.
Also, back aches. Pelvic aches. Sore boobs (colostrum coming in) and heartburn dont make me the sexiest woman around haha ♥
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